The Arcwave Ion was a toy I wanted to like from the moment I saw it. Unlike most strokers or penis-focused toys, this one doesn’t look like a flashlight, a can, or anything overly anatomical. It looks like a high-end speaker or grooming device. I keep it on my nightstand, next to my lamp, and no one has ever guessed what it is. Discretion points: full marks.
But a toy can’t win on looks alone. After over a dozen sessions, here’s what I think about how it actually performs. Looking back, I'm glad I recieved this on a points redemption as it didn't tick all the boxes for what I'm after for me, but, it may still be right for you!
The Ion is a stimulator designed to target the Frenulum using Pleasure Air Technology; basically a pulsing airwave system adapted from clitoral toys like the Womanizer and Satisfyer Pro 2. Arcwave is owned by the same company as We-Vibe and Womanizer, so the tech comes from a strong pedigree.
This isn't a stroker. There's no suction, no pumping, and no motorized movement. The inside of the Ion is lined with a firm, body-safe silicone, and your shaft fits through an opening that leads to the stimulation chamber. The air pulses are focused and rhythmic, delivering a kind of touchless throb that’s entirely different from vibration or friction. You can stroke if you want to, but it's not the design of the toy.
If you’re expecting the kind of stimulation you get from a Fleshlight, Tenga Flip, or even a Feel Stroker, this isn’t that. This is gentler at first, but it builds into something way more intense than I expected. The first few sessions took longer for me to finish, but once I adjusted my expectations, it became clear this wasn’t a novelty. It is every bit as a legit way to finish as any other toy, and when it hits, it hits hard.
Where it shines is when you’re trying to avoid overstimulation. You don’t get raw or sore from it. And the sensation feels like it’s hitting deeper than the surface, even though it’s just focused on the frenulum. It pairs well with edging or being used alongside prostate toys or plugs like the Vector+ or Ditto.
The biggest drawback though is that it is loud. Even on lower settings, the mechanical thudding of the air pulses is noticeable through walls. On different floors. It's not subtle, and in a shared space, it’s hard to ignore. If you’re hoping to use it discreetly, headphones and closed doors won’t always cut it.
One of the Ion’s big selling points is “Smart Silence,” which is supposed to keep the toy idle until it senses skin contact. In theory, that would let you hold it against your body, adjust your position, or turn it on and off mid-session without fumbling with the buttons.
In practice? It never worked for me. Not once. I followed the manual. I repositioned. I tried different levels of arousal and angles, lube types and quantities. I even flipped the sleevef upside down. The feature either failed to activate or turned off mid-session when things shifted slightly. I ended up just leaving it turned off and ignoring the Smart Silence entirely. It’s not a dealbreaker, but it definitely felt like a missed opportunity.
This is where Arcwave absolutely nailed it.
The Ion comes with a magnetic drying and charging base that doubles as discreet storage. After use, you rinse the toy (it comes apart easily), towel off the excess moisture, and slide it into the base. The base allows air to circulate drying the inside, and it charges at the same time. The whole thing feels like it belongs next to a Dyson toothbrush or electric razor, not in a sex toy drawer. What I would have liked to have seen given the price-point would be a small laptop fan that blows air through the stand vs. using a silica pack. Modders, your challenge awaits!
It charges via USB-C, holds a long-lasting charge, and everything has a nice weight and finish to it. The silicone doesn’t stain or get sticky over time. Even the logo placement is subtle.
The Arcwave Ion is a weird one, but in a good way. The sensation is unlike anything else in the penis toy space, and while it may not replace your stroker or hands, it’s something I reach for when I want intensity without friction. It’s well made, easy to clean, and genuinely discreet.
The downsides? It’s loud. It’s expensive. And the Smart Silence feature just doesn’t deliver. But if you’re looking for a different kind of stimulation or a toy that won’t scream “sex toy” on your nightstand, the Ion is a strong contender.